Son, that is the problem of thread-hijacking. If you have a question start a new discussion putting all the facts relevant to your case open.
Having said that, I see that you have started a discussion, Moodle for 4K users, where you got many replies. Rather than continuing there, you abandon it and start anew here!
And possibly the same thing here: Long latency in loading media.
On top of that, your Moodle is 4.2, I noted, nothing to do with "Problems after upgrading from 4.1.12 to 4.5.7" the subject says! I changed subject line of this post, in case the moderator decides to separate the discussion from this post.