Hi Allida,
1.- "Where/how do you update the jump for the option No" Sorry Which "option No do you mean"?
2.- "I discovered in the forum that the Number of attempts option is over ridden if you use the try question again option."
Yes, this is correct.
"So it seems the students can end up in an endless cycle."
What do you mean by "endless cycle"?
3.- "I don't want the students to go to the next question. I want them to go to the next page"
In the Lesson activity, a "question" and a "page" are the same object. So again I do not get your meaning.
4.- "I would like students to have the option to try the question again. That seems straightforward."
Well, if you set the Number of attempts option to a number greater than 0, the students will be able to try to answer your questions as many times as that Number of attempts number. That is straightforward.
5.- "Has anyone created an if - then grid for the Lesson options? It would save a lot of time if you didn't have to discover for yourself what options over ride other options."
The answer is "No, not to my knowledge". As you have found out the (too?) large number of options available in the Lesson module makes it extremely difficult to understand the interactions between those options. It would be a daunting task to write the "grid" you want. The Lesson activity is a powerful, it offers lots of possibilities, but its interface needs a good re-vamp. That is in the pipeline, but probably not any time soon. In the meantime I suggest using the Lesson "as is", without playing too much with its default settings, and only changing them one at a time, to observe the consequences. There is no reason that you cannot achieve what you want to do, but you'll have to keep experimenting.
Joseph