You mean, let them expose everything private to the BIG and spare the small toe here?
We all have confusions about our identity. I understand now, why even the earliest spiritual leaders started with the question "Who are you?" or in my region it is "What are you"? If that can not be resolved at least build some sort of an identity which "sounds" real. Tuesday is a bad choice. Yes, James Steerpike is much better. ;)