Hi Steen
So the culprit not something technical - like the sender, envelope sender, from which SMTP server, what SPF allows, etc. but the _content_, the hyperlink in your case. In other cases it is the "noreply" in the sender address, HTML mail, etc.
As you said, these problems are never solved for ever, they are continuously under construction.
General help
SMTP server configuration
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