Thanks for your balanced and heartfelt response Lesli. Those who have experienced depression (and related mental conditions) in ourselves, friends or families know how complex the situation is, and how difficult it can be for everyone to get through. It's good of Chardelle to suggest a more private place to discuss this as examples rapidly become personal. Like many debates that touch our experiences, the above thread rapidly became polarised and personal but it seems to me that all protagonists were making some sort of sense
My own experience has told me:
- chemicals can be helpful in getting through but rarely 'cure' and also carry problems (e.g.recent findings on prescription of Seroxat to adolescents)
- stigma is an additional problem that people suffer
- 'coming through' can involve an element of taking responsibility and personal change, if and when possible
Sorry for prolonging this but I just wanted to suggest that a plausible account of depression can contain much of the apparent contradictions in this thread.