Have you tried to verify your email is working with Moodle in general, with something like eMail Test (https://moodle.org/plugins/local_mailtest)? I haven't used the update email notification component of BBB, but we use the recording notification option and it works for us.
Web conferencing plugins (including BigBlueButton)
BigBlueBottonBN Email Notifications
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