If the theme is compatible with 3.3 you should have no problem. Just follow the regular upgrade instructions for your server found in the docs. Make sure you copy over your theme folder (plus any other plugins you have installed). All the settings reside in your database so will be saved through the upgrade.
Themes
theme upgrade from moodle3.2 to moodle3.3
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