Hi Sally. Yes I am still here
The instructions referring to templates and import were for if you use items within the same Moodle. To do what you want you will have to (first ensure the second Moodle has the questionnaire module - it is not standard) and then in your course admin settings click "backup" Only tick the questionnaire to back up and then click next to create a zipped copy of this course (which will just have the questionnaire in it) Then you download it to your computer. Go to the Moodle where you want it and to the course where you want it and click "restore" You will be prompted to upload the zipped folder you downloaded from the other site - follow the instructions to upload and unzip/restore into your second Moodle.
As for the "template" option, that is in the "advanced settings" option once you save and display the questionnaire.